How to get over a Break Up

How to get over a Break Up

What’s the best way to handle a break up? I’ve often asked

Cry about it for a week and you’ll be fine afterwards

Pay it no mind and it will be off your mind in days

Rant about it to all your friends, it helps to talk

Pretend like it never happened

Think of all the reasons why a break up was the best bet

Lie to yourself

and remember to say it was “his or her loss”

It always is, isn’t it?

 

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How can I not break? 

How can I not break? 

It’s hard to not be broken when you’ve been hit, tossed, smashed and even trampled upon.

But the goal is to not be broken …

You ask: 

How can I not break when the weight of the world is on my shoulders?

How can I not break when my heart – the essence of my existence has been broken?

How can I not break when the only options laid out before cause me to tremble in more fear than I thought possible?

How can I not break when breaking seems like the only way to escape the possibility of being broken? 

But the goal is to not be broken. 

The goal is to find that styrofoam that protects you from impact

The goal is to be a person that cannot be broken

The goal is to be unbreakable

The goal is to be strong

The goal is to prevent potential cracks

The goal is to seal up the bruises

The goal is to not be broken.